Giuseppa Rapisarda (Mangani) was born on 11 February, 1936 in Ramacca, Catania, Italy. Today she would have been celebrating her 86th birthday. But on 20 September, 2020 she died in her husband Lucio’s arms. Due to the lockdown restrictions enforced by the Victorian state government at the time of her death, Giuseppa’s funeral on 4 October, 2020, was limited to 10 participants. As a result most of her grandchildren were not able to attend. As her eldest grandchild, I had the